PS4 consoles only support PS4 controllers and a keyboard/mouse, not other brand controllers.
On PC, the system button should open the Xbox Game Bar, the joysticks should move a box cursor around, and pressing the select button or “A” should activate the current item.
On your controller, use the left joystick to select an item from the menu and ○ (PS4) or B (Xbox) to select and × (PS4) or A (Xbox) to go back. The A/B button arrangement on game menus can be changed to match what you would expect on an Xbox.
While firing with a bow, use the two other joysticks to position the crosshair until it is pointing where you want to fire.